“You hurt my feelings.” Rather than buy into this nebulous and unhelpful subjective statement, there’s a better way of looking at feelings that not only reflects objective reality but also allows for personal responsibility.

Our feelings can lead us astray, but it can be just as troublesome when we lack feelings, especially for others. Two examples from Scripture can help guide us when it comes to our feelings.

Our feelings can distort the truth, leading us to believe what is false about our circumstances or the people around us. How can we steward our feelings well to God’s glory?